Tuesday, February 9, 2010

Tuesday Day 13- Love Dare-Love fights fair

Dare-"Talk with your spouse about establishing healthily rules of engagement. If your mate is not ready for this, then write out your own personal rules, to "fight" by. Resolve to abide by them when the next disagreement occurs."

"If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand" Mark 3:25

1 comment:

Nellie's Cozy place said...

Morning Janet,
Boy, isn't that a great scripture,
and such truth.
I think we all have to learn at some point in our marriage and really in any relationship, disagreements aren't about winning! So many times I think that is what causes so many problems cause we want to be "Right".
I remember my hubby going to a promise keeper event and the guy
told a story about having a fight with his wife and he slept on the couch. The next day is was out walking and talking to the Lord about it and the Lord said well, do you want to be "Right" or do you want to be "Reconciled", and he said I want to be "Right" and it went on the same way for about
3 days, with the Lord contining to tell him the same and his answer being the same, and then
after 3 nights on the couch he finally decided he would rather be
"reconciled". I learned a lot from that lil story cause some times we dig our heals in on things that don't really make a hill of beans but we so want to be "Right". Now if sin is involved that is a whole nother story!! But most times it isn't sin it is
just us be stubborn and silly! lol
Have a great day hon,
Glad yall are staying with your love dare, good for you guys!!
Blessings, Nellie